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Frank B Kermit is an Expert in Relationships to the fullest defiantion of the word. An Expert in any field is someone that has a combination of real life experience with proven results and explainable theory that can adapt to multiple situations.The Relationship Expert studies relationship theory and then goes out and gets field experience and practices it…trying out the rules and relationship structures to see what works and figuring out the underlying principles of WHY something does and does not work in context. This is exactly what Frank B Kermit did, and what sets him apart from relationship academics.

Frank B Kermit is the author of multiple Frank Talks Programs (including over 100 individual books and CD products) covering a wide range of Relationship Topics.

Frank Guest Speaker and Group Coachings are intended to be adaptable to align with the specifc learning outcome goals for your group. Please contact Frank to discuss your group needs and to create a Frank presenation that will accommodate your audience.

 

Selected Guest Speaking Reviews from the audeicne at The Paradigm Shift Institute (A self improvement seduction group):

Wow, I've just gotten through about a third of your material and have to say this is one of the most unique books I've come across in this field. I'm officially a fan of the Frank B Kermit club :).

-TheShowman

 

I enjoyed tonight's meeting and see 3 immediate takeaways for me: 1) I see a couple female needs that I wasn't previously aware of, or didn't realize it was quite as important as it is. For instance, EN10 makes so much sense to me as being a real fear to women. Just think about how much of a reputation killer if a man leaves a wife because he turns out to be gay 20 years later. Not only is it murder to her reputation and status (EN1), but also means abandonment (EN5). Very serious. 2) The model is specific and gives me a clear list of 10 needs that forces me to look at which needs I could be a lot better at proactively addressing and more mindful of not violating. It gives me something to work on immediately. 3) I'm now going to do an ENA on the women I'm dating, seeing what their primary needs seem to be, therefore allowing me to improve and feel confident that I can maintain the relationships I already have. Tonight's meeting was also worth it alone for that eye opening discussion on why it's so important to be 100% responsible for both the man and woman's birth control/protection. Too bad we ran out of time, but I think everyone who went would have found some awesome takeaways from tonight, so thanks Aar, Frank and Ken. Appreciate your time and knowledge!

-Ol Flashy

 

It was a great meeting and I swear I am going to laminate that emotional needs for women sheet! It is GOLD!!!!! You guys were so amazing, thanks alot for letting me attend :)

-Ms. Sage

 

I just LOVED the meeting :) Frank is an awesome person, who definitely can make other people FEEL him - even a hard-hearted and closed guy like myself ;) The theory itself is pure gold - I analyzed my previous relationships and a few times my jaw dropped when a light bulb went just so on in my head. I remembered this girlfriend whom I was fucking when she was 100% in 5-years-old emotional state, and I felt so bad, I couldn't even fall asleep easily. And there were many positive experiences that now make perfect sense to me when I see them "through the filter" of the 10 ENs. I really loved the material, the way it was presented, and personality of the presenter, and the crowd :) I'm starting to use this stuff in my life IMMEDIATELY - one just can't go wrong with it! No, really - I see no downside at all :) Where's the catch, Frank?! ;)

-Kohb

 

I was very impressed by what I have learned from Frank's materials over the last week and the workshop that Frank did last night. Since last year I have learned a lot about what went wrong and why in my previous relationships but Frank's ENA model takes it to a much deeper lever. A lot of unpleasant memories from my past came back while reading many of the ENA exercises over the last few days...Last night when I came home from Frank's meeting I ordered 4 of his books.

-Gear

 

Thanks to Frank for his time and insight. I understand the EN model much better than before now and the key thing for me was to interpret situations through the feelings of a woman. It's so easy for a man to assume one thing over another based on our logical thought process but when you realize that women operate more emotionally than logically, the EN model makes total sense. It has now helped me determine some of the real reasons why I have been dumped by past girlfriends, as well as determine why my best interactions with certain happened the way they did.

-Rugged

 

Thanks for the advice Frank. I find your model a lot more generalizable, and it is definately one level more powerful than the other models that I know when it comes to relationships. I notice that the model is like a translator to go from woman to man... its structured in a way that a man would understand it, and it interprets women's actions. pretty amazing!

-Hypernova24

 

Thanks for being at the meeting Frank. You did a great job, I have just ordered your first two books.

-Leyer

 

Other Reviews:

First of all props to Frank B Kermit.....we owe you big time for spending your weekend with us chumps. Saturday was a long, but great day. Frank B Kermit provided incredible insight from start to finish. Everyone there no doubt walked away from the meeting with invaluable information. Everyone left their egos at the door and we all took some lumps, but we are better for it. I learned a lot on just what it means to be a man, and that in itself was worth the effort.

- B. W. Joe

I've spoke with Frank B Kermit on many occasions, I've met up with him in person; I can know that his criticism only comes from a place where he wants to see each and every one of us improve. If he is utterly positive and/neutral, the only thing this will do is encourage us into remaining unsuccessful in our behaviors. It is harsh at times; but his mission here is to build real men, men that are made out of steel, that no one can hurt or play with; men that know how to handle and treat a woman. No one likes to be criticized. No one likes for someone else to tell them they must change in order to reach success or certain results. That's normal human behavior. However, we are here to LEARN. In the journey of becoming real men, we must be criticized and we MUST change; its part of the process. Someone like Frank B Kermit speaks to us from a place of experience and masculinity and confidence, we must be open to such criticism and advice. If it hurts your ego, it'll only make you stronger, you should accept that he has experience, and is not here to waste his energy giving you weak advice just to push you down or make you feel useless. He can understand my pain because I know he also comes from that same place of pain.

- I. Noori

When I first attended the seminar, I thought that I wasn't gonna learn much, because I have already read so much stuff...But Frank B Kermit... there are so many things that you told me that changed my perceptions of things ten times more powerfully than reading stuff in books. Guys, don't be afraid. His criticism is what makes us improve! He taught me that we are seducers IN TRAINING, to learn from our mistakes. It's not to show who's best, it's not for the competition, It's TO LEARN. Listen, we are human beings, we are far from being perfect. Stop caring about what other people think of you all the time, otherwise I could go back reading books by myself. You can open up conversations with girls everywhere... in the bus, work, school, grocery store, street, malls, anywhere.

- Armando K

I must say that to me, what I found most helpful, was that Frank B Kermit remembers when he was a Loser. There's much more sympathy in him than what I see out of other gurus out there who have long since become naturals, and unable to understand why people simply can't "be like them." To me, Kermit can be summed up in one sentence: He respects you, and demands the same respect. Be it women, men, people beneath him, people above him, doesn't matter. He treats everybody with the same respect and dignity you wish you would receive from others. That is remarkably more charistmatic, and what a remarkable way to conduct Game. To be a man, but not a bully. You have definitely earned my respect. I look forward to hearing more from you.

- Raymond H.

One of Frank B Kermit's first questions was if I wear any rings, necklaces, hats or tattoos. It's about wearing things that represent oneself. Frank B Kermit led me through the symbols exercise. The symbols exercise I saw as a very good exercise for decision making -- a skill I need to work on very much -- and as an exercise for getting to know myself better. It makes clear some things that I like and that define me, and then the idea is to make links to these things on my outside, on how I'm dressed. It seems so obvious to me now. Otherwise, what the hell am I wearing? It's senseless. The idea is now to easily have things to talk about -- stories stemming from items I'm wearing which themselves stem from symbols which represent who I am.

- Sam N.

I arrived late and did not understand why we were coming up with symbols until the very end. However, now I do understand the symbols theory, it's basically defining yourself to help you with meaning. So it's not just random things you put on, but things you put on for a purpose. The things I retained from the meeting is that everything a man does has a purpose. I especially liked the mind frame that everything happens for a reason, therefore, if you're talking to this girl.. it's for a reason, and if you sleep with her, it's for a reason (aka it was meant to happen). Finally, I learnt that it would be useful to have a story about *everything*, as when I was put on the spot, I didn't really have one right away. Although I believe that stories might come with additional infield experience, it might be useful to have more prepared, so when people ask frequent questions such as: "what's the story behind those shoes", "what do you do", etc. You immediately have an interesting story. Saying: "Well that's an interesting story..." when they ask you that gives you 2-3 seconds to think about your answer, but I could only use that line once in an evening. I really enjoyed that notion as it's something I already try to incorporate into my own game.

- K. B.

I’m really glad I got there. What impressed me most is Frank B Kermit's personality, the way he speaks , behaves - it's very powerful man! Anyways, there several things that I’ve learned : a Real Man Must know what he's talking about, he Must know what he wants in Life and where he came from. Everything he has, wears, wants - has special meaning , a purpose. He never hesitates , he has system of values and believes. There should be no ..umm..ehh....well. I’m not sure... - always Clear Statement - it shows that You have Your Life in Control. Then for me personally - I one more time understood - I have to speak Louder and Slower - it shows Confidence....and Smile More. Last word: Frank B Kermit - I Really Appreciate Your Time and Help - it was Great , Very Useful Lesson for all of Us, Thanks Man

- N.R.

Here's the important part of what I got out of it. First and foremost, you have to choose symbols that have real meaning in your life. Don't just choose things that are hard to explain, or uninteresting. The first concept is the idea that if you and the woman are wearing the same type of jewelry, it gives you a reason to comment. For example if you have a necklace and she has a necklace, there's nothing out of place about the two of you having a conversation about how and where you each got your necklaces and what they mean to you. This is where the symbols come in. In my case, I chose the white tiger as one of my symbols, so if I girl asked me why I'm wearing a tiger tooth around my neck, I can tell her about the white tigers in Las Vegas, why I was there, and how I came to appreciate them. But the key here is how the symbol links to a personal story. The necklace has a REASON. It's more than just something that looks cool. Another important point is about how symbols can link to each other. One of the common themes we found in several of my symbols was time and clocks. Because of this, it will help me do context switches from one symbol to another. The idea is also that your symbols should help you tell stories and have conversations, and should point out how they made you feel. If you can trigger the emotion to the symbol, you'll get a very powerful response.

- R. Twist

This meeting with Frank B Kermit was once again mind-shattering. I gained more insight into how a woman’s mind works. I also received advice from other guys who attended. Thanks your feedback on my body language, eye contact and tension building/releasing (and of course everyone’s many very well-received compliments on my new haircut...). Here are highlights of the meeting for me. List your symbols and Brainstorm on each symbol: how does each symbol connect to who I am? Your stories should tell her details about who you are and these details should be sprinkled in indirectly. Everything in my life happens for a reason/purpose. If she becomes part of my reality, then that’s for a reason, and she will see it as sth that is meant to be. Some reminders from previous discussions with F B Kermit: It’s never about looking for similarities based on facts. It’s always about looking for similarities based on emotions & feelings. Your goal as a seducer is to make people feel good. The most important thing is how she treats me.

- L. Louis

Much Respect Frank B Kermit for setting this up.. it's been awhile since Ive seen you. It's really good for the soul to meet with people working towards the goal of self-enhancement.. Interesting meeting, I'll try not to repeat what others have said but there were things that struck particularly hardcore with me. Women assign categories to men, In 3 seconds a woman can make enough judgements about a seducer to either include or exclude him from the possible sexual category. When talking to women, don't look for things in common; if the chick likes dogs, don't act as if you like puppies cause their cute-- if you like fish with the same enthusiasm, connect on the basis of that! We can't lead someone who we think is superior.. (which is why I've gotta completely obliterate those thoughts of chicks being on a scale of 1 to 10.. thats just validation seeking behaviour anyway..) Turn negative stuff she may bring up into positives.. "isn't it cool that we don't have to talk all the time? we can just enjoy this silence together..wow, whatta connection" blah blah We've gotta practice this stuff on everyone! Start off stories with.. "well thats an interesting story" gives you time to recall information from the back of your mind. Have some peacock apparel cause it make sense to ask about her ring when you yourself have one, naturally. Same with everything else..So yes, I'll need to accessorize when Ican..im off to sleep

-B.F.D

I wasn't expecting at all what did happened next. F B Kermit talked about storytelling and wardrobe. What I did understand is that it's better to have story and wardrobe look based on your personality and experiences. Now imagine how would you be if you have kick ass outstanding look based on you personality and stories from your own life? I would feel confident as hell, there would a peaceful voice in the back of my mind saying that I'm the king of this world. .F B Kermit asked me and all the guys questions and from the answers we did come up with accessories suggestions and possible story topics. Questions: What your sign? What animal like to be? Favorite cartoon character? My answers: Taurus, Old gorilla and Little Prince. After that we were saying our answers and coming up with ideas. F B Kermit asked me what was my favorite cartoon character and I said Little Prince, everyone was coming up with ideas for accessories and story topic I was listening and thinking about it then from no where Kernit said to me "STARS AND ROSES". As the Little Prince was a star catcher that had a talking Rose. At this point my mind went iiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii. I think I went 4 years old for maybe 5sec saw myself and come back. A lot of things just clicked in my head. I can link a lot of things that I do or believe to the Little Prince. I was wearing a flower T-shirt and 3 of my favorite shirt have flowers on them and I wasn't aware of it. I have screen saver with stars and galaxies on my computer. This meeting will have a snowball effect on my life. I did got a lot from it and I know that I'm going to make some change that will get me closer to my goals. Thank you F B Kermit for the meeting and your effort, I really appreciate your help.

- N. French