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Are you in a monogamous couple and you would like to open up your relationship to dating, threesomes, or multiple activities but you worry that it might threaten your existing relationship?
Is your partner wanting to live out some sexual fantasy, and you want to participate, but are not sure where to start?
Are you relatively inexperienced with dating and sex, and want a beginners understanding of non-monogamy so that you can figure out what would be best for you?
Want to know how you make alternative relationships work in a society that sees monogamy as the norm?
Want to know what part does honesty play in non-monogamous relationships and what is means to be too honest?
How can an alternative relationship work?
Want to hear the reason that EVERYONE should support same sex marriages?
Are you worried that being non-monogamous might make people think you are 'bad'?
If you answers YES to any of the questions above, we have the KEY to solve all your problems with this:
ALTERNATIVE RELATIONSHIP CHOICES: A GUIDE TO NON-MONOGAMY AUDIO SET
What’s This Audio Set About?
in this audio recording of a seminar from 2009 in front of a LIVE audience, Frank Kermit tackles yet another tough subject that many people are uncomfortable talking about. Lifestyles such as Polyamory, Open Relationships, Swingers, and BDSM and more are explained and more!
You'll get ALL of the following information in this 4 MP3s (APPROX. 4 HOURS) digital Audio Set:
Fix your dating life RIGHT NOW – Buy ALTERNATIVE RELATIONSHIP CHOICES: A GUIDE TO NON-MONOGAMY AUDIO SET. We are offering this Audio Set for only $40! What are you waiting for?
BUY IT RIGHT NOW USING THE ADD TO CART BUTTON BELOW!
*P.S. Many coaches use the term "For Entertainment Purposes Only" to write and say whatever they want without any legal repercussions. Even reviews of their own products and services! Frank Kermit does not hide behind entertainment purposes. The advice in this book is 100% AUTHENTIC.
P.S.S. Frank writes his own material and does not hire any "ghostwriters" to do his work, unlike other coaches out there. Frank is no marketer by any stretch of the imagination! But this also means his work is 100% honest material.
(Note: Read the reviews below of those who have found positive change studying this program)
Is your partner wanting to live out some sexual fantasy, and you want to participate, but are not sure where to start?
Are you relatively inexperienced with dating and sex, and want a beginners understanding of non-monogamy so that you can figure out what would be best for you?
Want to know how you make alternative relationships work in a society that sees monogamy as the norm?
Want to know what part does honesty play in non-monogamous relationships and what is means to be too honest?
How can an alternative relationship work?
Want to hear the reason that EVERYONE should support same sex marriages?
Are you worried that being non-monogamous might make people think you are 'bad'?
If you answers YES to any of the questions above, we have the KEY to solve all your problems with this:
ALTERNATIVE RELATIONSHIP CHOICES: A GUIDE TO NON-MONOGAMY AUDIO SET
What’s This Audio Set About?
in this audio recording of a seminar from 2009 in front of a LIVE audience, Frank Kermit tackles yet another tough subject that many people are uncomfortable talking about. Lifestyles such as Polyamory, Open Relationships, Swingers, and BDSM and more are explained and more!
You'll get ALL of the following information in this 4 MP3s (APPROX. 4 HOURS) digital Audio Set:
- Questions from the LIVE audience that Frank answers on the spot
- Exploring non-monogamous relationship structures and comparing and contrasting it to monogamous relationship structures
- Why non-monogamous relationships are considered "the alternative"
- The process of accepting the secret sexual lives that people are not telling you about
- How to Cope with the loss of not getting the chance to date someone in particular and why some people mourn more than others and new ways to see your situation
- Are non-monogamous or monogamous the actual norm, and how to find a resolution to this debate as to who has it all figured out
- A brief history of Frank's story and how he came about learning different relationship structures to figure out what does and does not work in the real world to prevent divorce
- The reality of how the reckless behaviors of your partner puts you and all of your other partners at risk (and vice versa)
- The benefits and consequences of monogamy
- Your inability to manage relationships vs the relationship structures, and how to make sure you know what your problem is so you can solve it once and for all
- Reasons people seek out non-monogamy and how to explain your desire for non-monogamy to your potential partners
- A real story about how some social circles would rather encourage cheating, lying and infidelity rather than support an existing public non-monogamous relationship
- Why some monogamous couples and society will be threatened by your non-monogamist lifestyle, and the sources of this aggression
- The intolerance of people in alternative lifestyle towards people in other alternative lifestyles (polymory vs swingers vs BDSM vs sexual orientations vs etc... ) even though there is a subset that overlaps, not everyone does
- Managing the dynamics and concerns when a married couple invites a woman to the bedroom for a threesome
- Some of the reasons why non-monogamous relationships tend to be more work than monogamous relationships
- How to learn to handle truths about attraction, sexuality, and relationships in order to master non-monogamy
- The mistake some people make about being too self-sacrificing for the benefit of others
- Aspects of people who are totally happy with monogamy
- How non-monogamy can be a solution for couples that are not sexually compatible
- The mistake NOT to make when you start exploring non-monogamous lifestyles, and the consequences of that mistake
- A story of the harm of misleading others and why knowing yourself (sexual orientation) before you allow anyone to commit to you is so important
- The rule of Doubt; follow when it comes to commitment
- A way for a heterosexual man can experience what sex is like for an asexual person (to better understand their asexual partners)
- Discussing the topic of Boredom as a motivation for some people to experiment and explore non-monogamy, and how to assess the difference between fun vs escapism to protect yourself from making regrettable choices
- Emotional Needs Advanced topic of seeking fun vs the emotional need of an emotional range to feel alive and the emotional need of the act of sex
- Stories of what sometimes happened in non-monogamy recreation sex lifestyle with a lover outside of the primary couple trying to break up the couple to form a new couple with one of the partners
- How Resentment of Restriction or Anti-Authority Attitudes could inspire people to seek out non-monogamy, and how to discover if your rage against monogamy is justified or just a form of rebellion that is unsatisfying and the conflicts that arise over time in non-monogamous relationships
- Stories of swingers that were satisfied for years with just the possibility of having sex without actually having sex
- A section on different relationship structures and covering beginner information on Monogamy, Swingers (with some swinger club rules and different swinger sex rules), Polymory (multiple emotional and sexual relationships), Gor, B.D.S.M. and sexual fetishes
- The story of the former swinger lady that served as a mentor to Frank and what she taught him about non-monogamy
- The rule that Everyone is Human, and how that applies to your expectations when it comes to knowing non-monogamists and their personal relationship criteria
- Why it can be easier to take a Monogamous partner for granted than taking a Non-Monogamous partner for granted
- A story of how a woman ended up cheating on her boyfriend with a couple, when she was only supposed to have sex with the wife, and how it changed the rules between the boyfriend and girlfriend. Also how the boyfriend was put at risk by the girlfriend withholding information and how he almost put another woman at risk
- An exercise of listing the criteria and the behaviors for all the different relationships structures you want to experience in non-monogamy, and why some find it so overwhelming they quit non-monogamy
- Looking at the sacrifices that you would have to make in any relationship structures (esp. in non-monogamy)
- The different levels of commitment in non-monogamy (emotional commitment, physical commitments, reproduction commitments, property commitments, etc...)
- Advice on what to do regarding your secondary and other partners when you are having serious problems with your primary partner in non-monogamy
- The Terry Gould principle for the Swinger Lifestyle
- Coming up with the right SAFE WORD in B.D.S.M. and Fetish play to make sure there is no chance of miscommunication
- B.D.S.M. as Skin Sensation Play
- What is considered cheating in non-monogamous relationships and where the lines are drawn and the ethics of being faithful in non-monogamy
- How to present yourself as a non-monogamous option to someone that has only ever practiced monogamy and what is important for you to do in order for that person to give it a chance and date you
- Advice how a couple can approach picking up a third lover
- How to find the time to manage all your lovers, how often you see each person, where you find time to meet new lovers and what is the optimal number of partners at the same time
- The principle of doing the same outings and events for each person you are seeing that is at the same commitment level
- At what point does it become the business of your lover that you are seeing other people casually, and vice versa. Also when your lovers start to act as if you are more committed to them than you actually are
- What to do if your needs change over time and you are already in a monogamous relationship and you want to transition to a non-monogamous relationships and what to tell her
- A discussion to have at the beginning a relationship in order to prepare your partners for a possible relationship structure change in the future depending on how things change
- The biggest mistake couples make when transitioning from monogamy to non-monogamy and how to avoid it by doing certain things to protect your relationship
- NON-MONOGAMY AND THE LAW (some questions and concerns about what you need to think about ahead of time)
- How to indicate to someone that she is your primary partner, how to declare it, how the primary position has been earned and what your expectations are, and what to do if your primary only sees you as a secondary
- An example of Non-Exclusive Dating Speech for you to tell the women you want to date
- How Poly-Mono relationships are legitimate and may actually be the best relationship structure for some individuals even if it seems one-sided by outsiders, and to present it if that is something you want
- How studying the Emotional Needs makes you fully understand why some people stay in bad relationships, and why some people leave really good relationships (regardless if monogamous or non-monogamous)
- Why reverse psychology will not work to make most people that identifies as a non-monogamist to become a monogamist by pushing them to date other people
Fix your dating life RIGHT NOW – Buy ALTERNATIVE RELATIONSHIP CHOICES: A GUIDE TO NON-MONOGAMY AUDIO SET. We are offering this Audio Set for only $40! What are you waiting for?
BUY IT RIGHT NOW USING THE ADD TO CART BUTTON BELOW!
*P.S. Many coaches use the term "For Entertainment Purposes Only" to write and say whatever they want without any legal repercussions. Even reviews of their own products and services! Frank Kermit does not hide behind entertainment purposes. The advice in this book is 100% AUTHENTIC.
P.S.S. Frank writes his own material and does not hire any "ghostwriters" to do his work, unlike other coaches out there. Frank is no marketer by any stretch of the imagination! But this also means his work is 100% honest material.
(Note: Read the reviews below of those who have found positive change studying this program)
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Hello Frank, I listened to the previews of both the Alternative Relationship Choices audio set and Making Monogamy Work audio set programs, and I liked them so much that I decided to spend the money to get both sets.
There are several "experts" on polyamory in the lesbian/bisexual community who have a shockingly negative, outdated view of monogamy. Do you know what I mean? This is a huge turn-off for me! Personally I think a Relationship Expert should be able to explain the pros and cons of *both* mono and poly relationship styles, so I was excited to find your site, since you seem to have a realistic, balanced, inclusive view.
-Review by (Name Withheld) Your #1 Lesbian Fan
Dude, your stuff is really kicka**!
Got myself a play partner! Our first scene together, she thought I had done this before and was surprised to learn that my experience is very limited. But I entered it with the right mindset and addressed her emotional needs and its been fireworks ever since.
You've changed my life man
-Review by Tom N.,
USA
I was deeply impressed with the material in Alternative Relationship Choices audio set. It complements Making Monogamy Work audio set beautifully. The two recordings, between them, explain to me how I had one part of my mindset in "mono mode" and another part of my strategy of life & love in "poly mode". Working neither strategy properly, I let the relationship I had been counting on to carry me through the rest of my life just drive over a cliff, as I stood there and waved. Ouch. I have a lot of thinking to do, about what I really want. With your tools, I will be empowered to get it. Thanks, Frank.
-Review by "Anonymous in Toronto"
Frank again gives a informative look into alternative relationship choices. A cord was heard throughout this lecture. The rules to make such a relationship work are counter intuitive. Frank nails it when he addresses each topic and following questions with practical wisdom.
One common thread heard was to be ethical. Ethical in having outside sex with someone besides your current partner. The nuggets that Frank tosses to the listener keep them seeing a different path.
What came forward was to keep all your thoughts feeling and actions in perspective and not to harm your other(s). Do no harm kept coming up again and again. Frank address how structured his alternative relationships in a fashion so there was no grey area.
As a man Frank took the time to figure out what he wanted before going for it. Research into alternative relationships enabled frank to know exactly what her wanted from his different. Again DO NO HARM came through. The women involved in Frank's circle of lovers knew what they were getting into with this man. Unlike many men who just play around. Frank was a serious playboy who told women up front what he wanted from her and what she could expect from him. Ethical, no lying, cheating, hurting another human
From this entire collection Frank's message is to treat people with respect. Be honest with yourself and them about expectations. The ability to avoid hurting people later will increase a man's chances to keep a woman in his alternative relationship.
One thing about Frank, he cares about people. He cares enough to be completely honest with the women he approaches. He knows from the first exchange of what he wants for himself first and what she can do to meet those needs. He also, tells women what to expect from him if they become involve with a man like Frank. In the end DO NO HARM.
-Review by Leonard K,
Toronto
I liked Frank Kermit's Alternative Relationship Choices audio set because it is a deeply insightful and revealing talk about the state of human love in the modern world. Before I listened to the entire series I was a one-woman man. Now that I have finished that has not changed – but I am substantially more enlightened. I have learned about the complex variety of other relationship choices that a modern person can make.
I found that Alternative Relationship Choices teaches you how to think about love, self-respect, respect of others, tolerance and human compassion in today's world. Frank Kermit delivers it all in a demystified and characteristically candid way. No matter if you are curious about swinging, if you are contemplating your own sexual preferences or lack of sexual preferences, if you are wondering what makes a marriage and what marriage means on an interpersonal level or if you just want to better understand the relationship decisions you make, this program will give you the broader and deeper knowledge you need.
Frank Kermit's Alternative Relationship Choices will give you all the benefit of Frank's considerable relationship experience in a talk that is honest, entertaining and easy to listen to.
-Review by D.S.,
Toronto
I have listened to the program. I would say there is A LOT of information on pretty much everything one can think of on Alternative Relationship Choices. Some of which not that applicable to me but for me.. there were a few a-ha moments.
I thought the fact that sex as a means to hide from your fears and troubles was very different.. never thought of it like that before.. The biggest A-ha moment for me was when Frank talked about fantasizing and future projections with a women in the beginning of the program and becoming fixated on the wrong person for you. Feel the emotion control the behaviour is the best way to tackle this.
It's a real wake up call to say the least..
-Review by Joel A.,
Toronto
Hi Everyone, I wanted to review Frank Kermit's Alternative Relationship Choices Audio Set which gives an in-depth explanation and overview of several different types of alternative relationships which are possible.
I first have to say that I was pleasantly surprised by the magnitude and quality of knowledge contained within Frank's program. As someone who has been exposed to self-development for around a year, Frank's program educated me about the structure and rules associated with different types of relationships. I have yet to meet someone as experienced and knowledgeable as Frank when it comes to dealing with relationships, and I have NEVER come across another dating coach who has a comparable understanding into the psychology behind a woman's emotional needs.
This program is also very BOLD. It educates you about topics such as BSDM lifestyles, swingers, fetishes, and polygamous relationships; all topics which I knew very little about before but I feel are necessary for everyone to know about even if you do not plan on practicing them.
Most importantly, Frank's program explains why structure and rules are needed in every type of relationship, and that boundaries must be clearly outlined and agreed upon by both partners. He also explains why it is in human nature to break these rules, and that precautions must be taken in order to protect yourself in the case of an open relationship. Rules and structure in relationships were a foreign concept to me previously, as I thought relationships would just 'go with the flow', but I now understand their importance and will apply this to my daily life.
Furthermore, Frank explores and talks about open relationships and common failing blocks when managing multiple partners. I found this very applicable to my present situation, and it helped me to understand why a few of my previous open relationships had failed. Frank's explanations are sprinkled with a few real-life examples to help demonstrate the concepts which he teaches.
I especially like his unwavering focus on ethics, and would highly recommend his program to anyone from beginners to more advanced and experienced individuals. In the relationship arena of life, Frank is one of the few people I've found to have a true understanding of women, and is someone I would trust and endorse.
Your Fellow Student,
-Review by S.M.,
Toronto
Here are the three things that I mainly got out of program without giving it all away:
-The social stigma associated with alternative relationships. Frank brings some interesting examples where monogamous couples are threatened by polyamory and provides explanations for this perceived threat;
-The rules for alternative relationships. Every relationship needs rules, but the nice thing with monogamous relationships is that the standard rules apply. For polyamory, you have to clarify the rules. Frank explains what types of rules are realistically enforceable. If you believe in learning from other people's mistakes, then there are good examples for you;
-How alternative relationships actually manifest themselves. Given Frank's involvement in the world of alternative relationships, he can dispel the myths widely perceived even by people accepting of them. As always in practice things are much different, and the material covers how most couples get into it and more importantly why.
What I appreciated most is that Frank keeps maintaining that there is something for everyone. I would expect someone from the "seduction" community (and it might be blasphemy to call lump him into it) to assert the benefits of the alternative lifestyle, but the value most prevalent in this series is respect. In the end, you'll be more focused on thinking about what you want because Frank has listed so many choices.
Thanks for the heads up Frank.
-Review by M. R,
Toronto
This product by Frank is excellent as it lifts the vial that is necessary to see how and why Alternative relationships work and don't work. I had always thought that people who practiced alternative lifestyles were open to everything however Frank talks about hos this assumption can lead to very risky territory for you. Areas likes threesomes are also explained and how they work, and how the opportunity can be lost. Anyone interesting in that kind of lifestyle or any kind of Alternative lifestyle should know how to treat the lifestyle and others who may practice it as well, so you can enjoy the lifestyle you choose to augment you life with.
This Frank product on Alternative Relationship Choices goes in depth towards rules of the Alternative Lifestyles. The explanation of the difference between Fun and Escapism towards alternative relationships, is VITAL to having a realistic and healthy scope on your own life in order to live happy and not miserable. This program also ventures into the swinger lifestyle and its many rules and reality that lets light on the common misconceptions. If swinging has ever interested you or peaked your interest, this is a valuable product to refer to to help you enjoy your alternative relationship choice.
On this Frank product, areas of monogamy are also explored. The realization of sacrifice is a necessary reminder of what to keep in mind when choosing Alternative lifestyles, as well as commitment that can still be necessary in order to make open relationships work. Other types of relationship involving the likes of BDSM and fetishes are given a clear definition of how they work and what they have in store for these interested in them. Anyone with an interest in the BDSM or Fetish area of relationships can use this program to better their enjoyment towards that lifestyle choice.
Frank talks a lot about how the wrong kind of relationship management can happen and cause relationships to end. Instead, there are rules and ways to ensure that everyone stays ethical and you prevent hurting your partner. The same way that you can manage your Alternative Relationships so they augment your life for the better. More honest enjoyment and less painful times can be had with the advice and material from this Frank Product. It's a great audio set for anyone ever interesting in Alternative Relationships and how to enjoy them at maximum potential.
-Review by Winchester,
Toronto
This program was very informative. I learned that managing an open relationship is not easy, as it requires managing each person and the overall relationship. I also realized that being in an alternative relationship may satisfy what you are looking for, and that is why people get into it. I also learned to be secretive about an alternative relationship, because you can be persecuted by others by choosing to be in that relationship.
This is a great introduction to the different kinds of alternative relationships. I really like the huge amount of detail of the swinger lifestyle, how swing clubs work and the kind of expectation to have. Frank also talks about the difference between having fun and using alternative relationships for escapism. Also, Frank talks about the BDSM community. This is a lot of great information as he goes over all the jargon involved, and the myths and experiences he's been through. Frank also speaks about the structure of open relationships, and to stop it from making it monogamous.
The program answers the miscellaneous questions I had about alternative relationships. Frank talks about what to do when you want to make one of your girls a primary girl. As well, he delves deep into the law relating to alternative relationships. It is very informative and now I know why the law is not very supportive of alternative relationships. Overall, this audio program is an amazing introduction to alternative relationships, and from what Frank speaks about, it is a whole new world to discover.
-Review by Rocco,
Toronto
Frank Kermit's Alternative Relationships Choices audio set is probably one of the few lectures that I've heard that addresses alternative relationships from a honest male perspective. Most of the stuff I've come across on the subject have usually been female based, and had more to do with how to be a female and deal with the emotions of being in an alternative relationship. Frank is willing to go where most dare to go and explain the good and bad of all sorts of alternative relationships and just how to go about setting up those alternative relationships.
I was surprised to learn a lot about monogamous relationships as well, and how many alternative relationships threaten monogamous ones. The stigmas attached to many alternative relationships were new to me as well. Frank also explained how to recruit with a primary very excellently as well.
As someone who practices alternative relationships himself, I can recommend this product for those looking to consider having open relationships, swinger relationships, or people with very little or no experience with BDSM. This is an excellent starting guide to figuring out how to manage things openly and honestly.
-Review by Darrel G.,
Toronto
Yet another Frank product jam-packed with information. It explains in vast details how open relationships are viewed by people choosing different relationship choices (in other words the perception on “alternative” relationships by people in different types of relationships). It also goes over the primary reasons why people decide to be in open relationships. The difference between having fun versus escapism was described as well as the danger to mentioning your lifestyle choice to certain people (such as someone who has the power to fire you). The dangers with adding a second woman to look out for were extremely insightful as well. The details about running swinging and polyamorous relationships were also rather eye-opening.
Here Frank talks briefly about the benefits of monogamous relationships vs the ones of open ones. He then talks about dealing with problems with relationships vs hiding behind a certain type of lifestyle from the problems. Then he proceeds to talking about how BDSM works in vast detail, and then how to avoid cheating in an open relationship. Finally on this program, he takes questions from the audience related to the material he has gone over up to this point. A very good amount of information was provided on legally dealing with open relationships including how common law has come to work against a lot of people in modern days as opposed to the original intentions behind it.
-Review by Alex S.,
Toronto